Comparison of qualities of loving parts of the personality, and frightened parts.
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Frightened Part |
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Loving Part |
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Unchallenged activities |
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Chooses consciously |
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Distorted perception |
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Clear perception |
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No trust (fear) |
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Loving |
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Focused on the past/future |
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In the present moment |
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Superior or inferior |
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Equal |
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Glass half empty |
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Sees everything with clarity |
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Second agendas |
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Acts from integrity |
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Wants to satisfy itself |
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Acts for health of all |
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Cover pain of powerlessness |
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Welcomes feeling the pain |
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Pursues happiness |
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Joyful |
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Entertains or be entertained |
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Enjoys |
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Indulges emotions |
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Experiences emotions |
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Distracts from feeling |
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Directly experiences emotions |
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Has friends who agree |
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Attracts spiritual partners |
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Sentimental |
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Real connection |
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Care taking |
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Care giving |
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Attached to outcome |
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Not attached to outcome |
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Victim/victor |
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Creator |