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Tim ILARIO
Posted 6 years ago

Hi Maria, have you read the Seat of the Soul book? It was very helpful for me to read this book and experiment what I learned.
Tim ILARIO
Posted 9 years ago

Dear Sundar. It is great that you are researching the meaning of “vulnerability” for you.
I find that there is a lot of wisdom on Luz share:
“I find that sometimes when I am quiet, the meaning presents itself to me.
From reading your post, the word vulnerable, to me means, “OPEN”, Clear, Present, without prejudice on how FP’s think they are perceived, and cultivating his loving parts that know he is connected to all. To me it is like being in Trust that the Universe is supporting you(him) at that moment.”

Luz also asked you the following:
“Sundar, I have an intuition that is wanting me to ask if there could be a FP active in part of your question”

Did you have a change to reflect on her question?

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Tim ILARIO
Posted 9 years ago

Hi Roxanne. I though I got this posted yesterday but apparently I didn’t complete all the way:

You ended your share with “For now, I will simply be with the physical pain in my body with the intention to heal”. How are you challenging the FPs you described since you posted this?

Tim ILARIO
Posted 9 years ago

Hi Leah. That is a great point. I did not think of that before. I know that I do not even tolerate when I react from frighten parts. I see this is a frighten part that does not have compassion for myself.

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Tim ILARIO
Posted 9 years ago

I can really feel in my heart area when talking about my sister in-law. I have frighten parts that thinks if she was this way or that way I could easily accept her. I have set my intention to connect with her on a soul-to-soul level and with anyone that I feel I just tolerate.
Tim ILARIO
Posted 9 years ago

I feel that I am usually more accepting than tolerant since I am doing my best to use the Authentic Guide Lines all the time. I also know that I do tolerate some people. This video showed me that I need to do be more aware when looking at tolerance versus acceptance.

An example of that is how I most of the times I just tolerate my sister in-law.

Tim ILARIO
Posted 9 years ago

It was good for me to see Gary and Linda’s video on Acceptance and Tolerance. I have frighten parts that still thinks that Tolerance is better than not Tolerating. Actually, in the past I thought that tolerating was coming from love. Now I see the difference clearly.

Tim ILARIO
Posted 9 years ago

Hi Stephanie and welcome to this community. I just read the various posting since you started this topic about two weeks ago and I found supportive for me. I really enjoyed reading the many shares since you started the topic.
Sundar’s share regarding his morning practice is very helpful. I have a similar morning practice and I will incorporate some of Sundar’s suggestions from now on.
Thank you all for all your heart-felt shares.
With Love,
Tim.

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Tim ILARIO
Posted 9 years ago

Hi Leah. Welcome to the chat. Thank you for your share.
Tim ILARIO
Posted 9 years ago

Hi Beverly. is the question you posted coming from a FP?
Tim ILARIO
Posted 9 years ago

Hi Rosalind. Yes I like this part of the video also:
“I can quit or I can continue – either way the Universe will not judge me.”

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Tim ILARIO
Posted 9 years ago

Hi Sundar. Thank you for sharing. I also still react from Anger at times. That doesn’t happen as often and I am able to respond from love most of the time.
Tim ILARIO
Posted 9 years ago

I really enjoyed listening to Gary’s commitment video. It is a great reminder how important commitment is.
I resonate with Gary when he talked about “drawing a line on the sand” that your FPs will not control you any longer and later he talks about his sex addiction.
For me also it came the time over 6 years ago when I made the decision to quit my addiction and put my full commitment behind it. I am grateful that I did not have any fall backs and did not cross the line regarding this addiction.
Since starting going to Gary’s events, I have set intentions to challenge FPs and still reacted from FPs instead of responding from love. In the past I would react from FPs that felt ashamed.
I now know that there is no shame when I falter when I still reacted from FPs. All I need to do is to learn from the experience and recommit to be more aware and respond from love next time.
Tim ILARIO
Posted 11 years ago

Hi Cheryl, I want to thank you for your posting. It really supported me. I really love this:

“Your sharing reminds me of the “trapeze song” Linda and Gary often play at The Journey… about consciously letting go of the old and familiar ways (fear) and consciously reaching out for the new way of aligning your personality with your soul by choosing sharing, cooperation, harmony and reverence for life. It requires courage, the courage I see in you using your will not to let your old frightened ways control you and instead cultivate presence, patience, compassion and self responsibility.”
And your example also supports me. Again Thanks.
With Love, Tim.
Tim ILARIO
Posted 11 years ago

Hi Kristen, thank you for your support and as you can see it took me a while to respond your posting also. Both times when I challenged my FPs of my personality my heart area felt open and I felt close and connected both to the man and with this community.
With Love, Tim.

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