Roslyn, Karel, Lori, Becky, and of course old timer Sundar, so nice to see the community getting active and engaged, and talking, motivating, supporting one another. Keep it up. We all get so much from these sharings.

Each time I was ready to learn something, the teacher has always appeared. These teachers are crafty though! Some times they come in the form of enemy bosses, or partners who leave us, or tiffs with friends. But they serve the purpose of bringing us back to this path.
And when the so-called enemy teachers bring us here, the good teachers come in the form of a sharing on the message board, not relevant to anyone else, but so right for me at that moment in time. Sometimes the sharing could even be 5-6 years old, but oh so right for me in that moment..

I especially connected with your practice of writing notes in the book, Roslyn. Our sub conscious knows what messages we need to go back to, and I have gone back to my notes, and found the guidance I needed again and again.

Keep posting, all y’all, I so enjoy this community!

Karel, it’s never too late to learn. And give and receive love and happiness. And conquer your frightened parts.

And yes, Sundar, I was indeed that first caller!

Welcome Abigail, and thank you for bringing this discussion back to the front. Don’t know how I could have missed it. So much good conversation and learnings here.

Yes, if “all y’all” are still here, would love to hear from you wise folk!

Doug, I know you are, because I spoke to you a couple of months ago. But Pam, Gail, Steph David, Ame-Lia, And Sundar that stirrer of long exchanges…wow, and I needed this profound conversation today!

Hi Jim,

Welcome to the group, and Thank you for your beautiful sharing. You have already come so far, it is hard to believe you are a newbie! You are recognizing your feelings, feeling them in your body, creating detachment from your emotions…wow, that’s great progress.

Did you get a chance to listen in on the telephone call last Saturday? If not, the teaching is also posted on this website. They address this very question of should I stay or should I go. I’ll see if I can find and share the link in a bit.

If I may be so bold as to ask you a question:.
It appears that you think that taking control of your world means making a decision to stay or go. What other ways are there for you focus on your self, to gain control of your world? Are there choices/ changes you can make?

People in general change when they are ready. She will change when she is ready. And she may never change. But she has already given you the gift of bringing you here, where you can learn about your feelings. Your emotions. You modus operandi.

I hope this helps. Take care, and hope you keep sharing your journey and realizations, as we all learn from one another.

Yohoo! You got it! In your own time! Isn’t that awesome wonderful! Keep making discoveries!

Aff’ly,
Shelley