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Debby Lee
Posted 13 years ago

Thanks Suza for the kind reminder. For me I know my emotions got the best of me even while trying to step back. I realize however that the secondary intention of being with others (so I won’t feel alone) is not fair to those around me.
Today I am embracing my alone time – went window shopping, got a bite to eat and am enjoying my own company =D
Debby Lee
Posted 13 years ago

Thanks for your post Eric. To be honest I’m still working on all this. It’s not just the one incident but stems from my children still struggling with a divorce from their father 6 years ago. They have taken his side and repeatedly leave me out and doing thing with him as a ‘family’. (they are older 32, 29, 20) The left out feeling is a fear part from my past so I’m still walking through this.

Congrats on the success at Starbucks and bypassing the muffins! =)
Debby Lee
Posted 13 years ago

I so relate to your post Marilyn. I’m having to look at my ‘intentions’ of being loving, kind, doing nice things etc… and if I have a secondary agenda of wanting to be accepted and loved. In being honest with myself I have to say that I have had that secondary agenda alot of the times. Ouch!
Learning to be content and happy ourselves is not as easy as it seems. My thoughts are with you as you go through the process – we are worth love, and worth loving – even loving ourselves! =)
Debby Lee
Posted 13 years ago

I so relate to your post Marilyn. I’m having to look at my ‘intentions’ of being loving, kind, doing nice things etc… and if I have a secondary agenda of wanting to be accepted and loved. In being honest with myself I have to say that I have had that secondary agenda alot of the times. Ouch!
Learning to be content and happy ourselves is not as easy as it seems. My thoughts are with you as you go through the process – we are worth love, and worth loving – even loving ourselves! =)
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