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Posted 10 years ago

Hi Wendy!

I read The Seat Of The Soul and The Heart Of The Soul in January last year so I’m fairly new to the concept of emotional awareness. I don’t know how long you’ve been practicing it yourself and I want to share my own experiences because it may help clarify things for you.

I didn’t feel any sensations at all to begin with.

I found that it was something that gradually came to the fore the more I made it part of my daily and moment-by-moment routine. I have parts of my personality that want to speed up the process of learning and growing and the more gentle, patient and non-judgemental I was with myself, the more I felt sensations in my energy centres. I also often get caught up in the “busy-ness” of life and that also hampers my ability to feel. What parts of your personality are active as you attempt to experiment with/practice emotional awareness?

You asked if we think there is any correlation or if you are trying too hard to make your experience fit. When you consult your intuition, what does it tell you?

Posted 10 years ago

Hi Soula, Shane and Joanne. Thank you for your insightful comments/questions. The final thought that crossed my mind right before I decided to speak to the lady was, “What if the situation was reversed? I’d want someone to let me know that I had a hole in my trousers”. I guess I felt that I was doing to her what I’d like her to do to me.

It’s still so confusing to me but I’ve consulted my intuition and I now know that my seemingly kind act came from a place of fear. I wonder if the most loving thing I could have done in the moment would have been to say nothing?

I will continue to work on being more conscious of the sensations in my body just before I act or speak and to also ask my intuition what my intention is for acting or speaking.

Posted 10 years ago

Welcome Shane!

“For most of my life I’ve tried to control the external world -external power-to make me happy.As we know it doesn’t work!!slowly as I’ve got older I’ve been able to let go alot of things.daily I try not to let any situation be a problem and always look for the positive solution.”

Boy, do I know that feeling! It is definitely the work I was born to do and as hard as it is to challenge those FPs moment by moment, it’s such a freeing and empowering experience for me.

Posted 10 years ago

Thank you all so much for sharing.

Your experiences have given me a whole new perspective on not just Robin Williams suicide but suicide in general. I never, ever thought of it as a gift or an act of love but reading this thread has made it so clear to me now. I’m grateful for all of you, for Gary and Linda and for Robin whose death has enlightened me so unexpectedly.

Posted 10 years ago

Thank you for this thread, Linda!

When I became a mother for the first time (and long before I read The Seat Of The Soul/chose to begin learning how to create authentic power), I was seeking a non-hierarchical form of parenting and was led to Jane Nelsen’s Positive Discipline books.

My husband and I find that positive discipline is a really good way to raise our girls (now 4 and 10 months) to be independent, self-aware and to teach them to make responsible choices. That said, I’ve been looking for ways to infuse it with what I’m learning about authentic power.

Last week, I was led to Annie Burnside’s Soul To Soul Parenting which I think brings aspects of positive discipline and authentic power together beautifully.

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Posted 10 years ago

Thank you for sharing everyone!
I have noticed that the reason I resisted posting a photo of myself (or found excuses not to) was to keep the walls of my frightened parts up and to hide in the back of the class.

Of course, my frightened parts agonised over which photo to choose (profile or looking at the camera as I am uncomfortable with the latter) but I have chosen one so that I can share face to face, so to speak.

Posted 11 years ago

That’s exciting, Frances – welcome! I began using Oprah and Deepak’s meditations quite recently (having never meditated before) and it’s been a wonderful, enlightening experience for me.

Posted 11 years ago

Hi Joanne and thank you. Reading The Seat Of The Soul was extremely illuminating for me. For the first time in my life, I’m looking inward and discovering/experiencing aspects of my personality that I never acknowledged before. It’s the hardest, most exciting, most rewarding work I’ve ever done.

Posted 11 years ago

Welcome Roberta! Gary’s interview with Oprah on Super Soul Sunday set me on the path to Authentic Power, too.
Looking forward to learning and growing with you.

Posted 11 years ago

Thank you for sharing this, Kristen! I have been so hard on myself lately – well, my frightened parts have been. 🙂

They keep berating me for not getting the hang of things quickly enough and I am so grateful for the reminder that it takes time and patience. How can I be kind to others if I cannot be kind to myself?

Posted 11 years ago

Hello Pamela and thank you for sharing your thoughts in response to mine. I’ve been thinking about the points you raised and I really don’t know what my intentions were. Whenever I’m about to act or speak, at the time, I think I know what my intentions are and then I begin to second guess myself. I try to scan my body but in the moment, I am unsure of the sensations in my body. This happens a lot where my husband is concerned.

I am constantly aware that my intention may be to try to convert him and I am constantly torn between wanting to do that so that I do not have to face up to my pain and acting with loving intention so that I do not create negative or unpleasant karma.

Your sharing has shown me that above all else, what I need to work on is emotional awareness with a particular focus on intention. It is so very important and is the cause that will lead to effect – negative or positive.

Posted 11 years ago

Thank you, Kristen and Pamela M! I look forward to growing spiritually with you both. 🙂

Posted 11 years ago

Thank you, Joanne. 🙂

Posted 11 years ago

Thank you Gail and David. It’s wonderful to hear from two of the many soul partners I now have!

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