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Basia M
Posted 10 years ago

Hi Shane,

When I experience the judge inside myself, I am usually wanting to feel better about my life condition. My fear is usually that unless I get my way and the other person conforms to what I want, I will never have love in my life again.

It is almost a formula: If __(person’s name) __ doesn’t change, I will never __(have peace in my life, have access to my granddaughter, have love in my life or in my community__ .

The imperative words are ‘never’ and the ‘other person(s) need to change’. With me, the fear never just stays with one thing that I will never have or get…one fear contaminates a lot of otherwise good aspects of my life.

I like that you prefaced your words with truth about the love and appreciation that you do have for your wife. Usually when we see that other person as all bad, we are in real trouble. The judge, in my self usually starts saying things under my breath about the other person…now, the moment I recognize that I am going in that direction, I reaffirm what my intention really is. If my intention is ‘peace and love in my family,’ then I say that to myself, like a mantra. I ask myself ‘How am I being peace and love in my family’ if I am putting someone down in my thoughts? That stops the chatter and moves the energy back to my highest good.

I have seen some real miracles in my life, in this regard…I have been able to enact real change through acceptance. That is not to say that I don’t get pouty and want things to go my way!!! lol. Breathe in your life force, exhale the separation.

Basia
Basia M
Posted 10 years ago

How about me?
I’ve been in this human form for a long time…many experiences lead me back to wonderment regarding synchronicity, knowing and guidance. For me, I have built up a confidence and trust in my system of feeling, thought and action. I was an artist for many years before I came to the work of Carl Jung. Early in my healing process I knew the power of creative expression for externalizing internal feelings and emotions. I became an art therapist and worked with adults for many years helping them to give voice to their experiences and integrate their traumas.

I feel a new direction unfolding. I am in a liminal space right now through the death of my son. I have been changed, dramatically, again. I know that my intention to help has not changed but the method and venue has already. I just don’t know how helping others will look in the future. Writing helps.

I am also reading a lot “Seat of the Soul” “Power of Now” and “Dying to be Me” which have been very useful. I have read many that are not very useful but I won’t name them here. I am expanding my perceptions and challenging my fear.

So great that you were introduced to this work through your parents!!!

Basia M
Posted 10 years ago

Looking forward to the webinar. Feeling very open and excited for it.
Basia M
Posted 10 years ago

Thank you, Sara. I see that you are quite a bright light here in this community. I look forward to learning more about you. Will you be part of the webinar on Saturday? Basia
Basia M
Posted 10 years ago

Sometimes when I begin to think (about all of it) I get a profound headache in the frontal lobe. It comes on quickly. When I stop thinking and move back into trust the headache moves away just as quickly. It doesn’t exactly happen in an energy center but it does tell me to stop thinking and intuit more. Thank you for asking that question tho. I will pay closer attention because I have felt burning in my throat a few times when anger was involved.

What brought you to this work, Sara?
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