Just had a painful conversation with my ex-boyfriend who is convinced we should reunite. After completing the conversation I realized that frightened parts of my personality were on the phone with him. Those parts are terrified at the prospect of a reunion because of the pain they endured in the ending of our relationship. After logging on and reading some discussions of my spiritual partners I realize that I was being totally superior during my conversation with him. Superior in knowing what is best for us both and how we should proceed, superior in being more “spiritually evolved” than him, superior in my need to caretake him and his actions. I realize now that the best course of action for me with my ex is to try in my next interaction to stay present and feel in my body what is going on….AND to send him a copy of the guidelines and use my courage to ask him to be in spiritual partnership with me. He was just a perfect spiritual partner catapulting me back to my work at the journey….and the best place to start our next interaction would be from the soul. We’ll see where that takes us. Thanks to my SP’s who have been writing….you inspired me.