I’d like to share my experience during our Journey Community phone call last Saturday. Several things Gary and Linda said made an immediate impact. When Linda asked what was I doing to be a spiritual partner to someone in my life who was distant or who didn’t talk, I felt my body tense and had a nauseous feeling in my upper abdomen. I knew instantly that I was doing NOTHING to be a spiritual partner to my husband who I/frightened part feel is frequantly distant, doesn’t talk and shuts me out of his life. My fp was telling me that if he didn’t want to be a spiritual partner to me that it was futile to try and work on a spiritual partnership with him. It hadn’t previously occurred to me that I had a huge fp that was attached to the outcome as to whether he responded to me or not. The real question for me is what am I doing in my life to create Authentic Power and live my life from love not fear. And why was I not seeing my husband as a soul who was acting from his own pain and fear? As I sat with this realization I had the thought that perhaps I had a fp that really did’t want him to be my spiritual partner; that was feeling superior, who was keeping myself distant and who didn’t want to even try to talk to him about what was going on with me. Oh how twistedly my fp’s contort my life! Projection at its finest. I did challenge this fp. It was extremely difficult for me to approach my husband by talking to him about what I wanted to learn about myself but i did it. And the results were nothing that my fp believed. I am so grateful for this process!! Namaste, Pam Meyer