Diane,

What might help is to tell yourself often that all that exists between you and your son, you and your sister is love. The experiences that the frightened part is attempting to create are illusory only. Continue to attempt to make the loving parts active.

Thanks Steve for asking. Much of my body got hard/rigid, from my throat to my second energy center… anger, judgement. And the Universe is supporting me in looking at this as on Friday our internet went down and when the cable representative said they couldn’t come out until late Monday, I (my fearful parts) reacted and I said “This isn’t acceptable.” My husband supported me in saying… “She can’t help/change their schedule.” And I saw my reaction… wanting control, wanting my way.

Hi Diane S, Did you watch the Illusion video? If so did anything come into your awareness that you can use to support yourself with feeling alone and stuck?

Thanks, Sundar. Both are distancing themselves from me, emotionally, and I find myself responding in kind. Yet, everytime I think about calling one of them I have tension in my belly, aching in my chest/heart, and the past few days, even a sore throat trying to develop with tightness in my upper chest/bronchial area. I know this is about fear – a frightened part of my personality – that I will be rejected further by them, through their responses or lack of as I try to connect with them. I want to avoid that feeling of rejection, another frightened part of my personality so I feel stuck.

Steve, thank you for the first post summarizing Gary’s powerful words. For me I am having experiences to interact with males from loving parts of my personality rather than frightened parts of my personality. I’m experiencing connecting soul to soul more clearly. The universe is bringing into my illusion experiences deeper than sexual/attraction energy. Helping me to open my heart rather than close it from fear which I am more familiar with doing. It is perfect for my souls evolution at this time in my life. Love, Kristen

Diane, thank you for sharing. Please trust that the Universe is compassionate (both to you and them). Please do not feel attached to the outcome of the calls you make. Whatever their words might be during your calls, continue to allow your loving part to be active toward them, trusting that the Universe will take care of it all the way It should.

Hi Kristen, can you give an example of opening your heart vs closing it in the Illusion? Love… Cheryl

Hi Wveryone, Would love to hear what experience of illusion you had that you were able to see clearly and appreciate as an opportunity to grow. Love, Pam