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Topic: Hi - Nikki M Started 8 years, 12 months ago
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Posted 9 years ago
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Hi, my name is Nikki and I have just joined the group. This is new to me and feeling a little nervous and apprehensive, did anyone else feel the same? |
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Posted 9 years ago
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Hi Nikki , Can I welcome you to the group? I still do sometimes feel this way too and recognise this as the frightened parts of my personality which are active as I struggle with fp s which make me feel that I will say or do the wrong thing . |
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Posted 9 years ago
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Hi Nikki, Welcome!! One of the best things for me about creating authentic power in my life is that I am becoming more and more aware of frightened parts of my personality that try to control my life, and in many cases, when I was unaware of them, they did just that. Because of my committment to this practice, I am now aware of the gift it is, that the Universe has brought them to my attention; they do not have nearly the unconscious control they once did. The fp’s (frightened parts) still come up. But the joy of being able to create the life I was born to live, is indescribable. Have you read Seat of the Soul or Heart of the Soul? They describe the process of creating authentic power, and how to use it in our lives. Would love to hear more from you and how you are doing. With Love, Pam |
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Posted 9 years ago
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Hi Nikki welcome I always feel nervous and anxious when I joining a group or attending an event , but the best I have learned is I know these are coming from my frighten parts of my personality and I have the power of choice in the moment to chose to come from a more loving part of my personality . This experience has changed my life.I feel I am giving the best of myself in each moment and when I can remember to stay conscious of my f/ps I and have much ease and peace within myself . I view F/Ps AS TEACHERS that are telling me I moving in the wrong direction and a signal to chose love . I have come to realize their are really only 2 choices in each moment LOVE OR FEAR . Now that I know I AM a creator of my experiences through my choices I TRY TO CHOOSE MORE RESPONSIBLY. Blessings LEO |
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Posted 9 years ago
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Thank you Pam and Leo for your posts , which put so well that we always have the choice in those frightened moments to choose from a more loving part of our personality. I have found Nikki , that It takes practice , but each time I challenge those feelings which are manifestations of the frightened parts of my personality , they loose their power over me more and more. . Love Anne |
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Posted 9 years ago
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This is the first time I have posted…so don’t know exact procedure, however, I do want to say that I am sorry I missed our chats last night. I was watching the debates on TV. How wonderful we can support each other and have a place to come to “talk” about anything important to learning how to show love and hopefully become more loving and “love filled”. I have a situation where I may be faced with a very fearful and negative person who has caused much fear to stick its ugly head up in several people in response to her. This is in art class and others have moved to other desks to get away from being in front of her desk. I have now been assigned that desk , the only one left! I am committed to show love to this person. I know that sometimes that may require me to stand firm on what is right and not be intimidated by her frightened part or mine! That may be hard for me as I have always found it easier to be submissive and not cause a rift. It will be interesting to see how well I do this…I may very well need your help and suggestions as I will be meeting this person (I’ll call her Artie) in the next day or two. More soon….Love, Donna |
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Posted 9 years ago
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Hello Team Cooperation!!! Welcome to the Group Anne – I look forward to working together as Spiritual Partners on our journey for spiritual growth. My apologies for missing our chat yesterday. I was judging myself for missing it and decided to be more gentle with myself and think through my feelings about it – in my chest and stomach. I determined that the frightened part was being a disappointment to everyone for not attending. And yes it is very familiar and a big part in my history of care taking to an extreme. I’ve gotten much better with that through my spiritual growth journey and this was a reminder that it’s still present though not as strong. In the past I would have called everyone, sent an email, a gift, etc. as a forms of getting you to love me anyway and to show that I am worthy of your love. WOW!! It is a strange yet wonderful feeling to kind of be out of body observing myself as I sit with myself to understand the emotional experience of the situation. |
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