My husband and I went to our favorite Italian restaurant for dinner last night. When we walked in, the hostess simply looked up at us. My fp was immediately triggered because she didn’t greet us. I told her, possibly from my fp, we had reservations and she seated us. I told my husband that I was triggered. My fp wanted agreement so asked him if he was triggered at all. When he said no, I knew this gift and opportunity was for me to look at myself. I had some pressure in my chest and the thoughts of this fp were that she should have said hi, asked if we had reservations, shouldn’t be in this job, etc – basically this fp wanted to feel welcomed like it thought it should have been made to feel. Once I challenged the fps, I could see that my fp had an attachment to how she was “supposed to be” as a restaurant hostess. It made me wonder where else and how often in my life this attachment to how things/people are supposed to be show up as this was not a new experience for me. Before we left I set my intention to connect with her and wish her a good evening. I was looking toward the door for her but didn’t see her. As I was walking away, I heard someone behind me say “thank you, bye”. I looked around and it was her. I thanked her as well and said goodbye from a lp. I’m truly grateful for the hostess and this opportunity to look at this familiar fp.